Confessions of A Father to Be: No BitchAssNess and Hold The Shenanigans
I noticed that lately, my patience has been very thin for all types of f*ckery. What is this f*ckery I speak of?
Anyone or anything that isn’t positive or that does not have my family’s best interests at heart.
If you’re not a positive person, I’m not dealing with you. I refuse to have people in my life who won’t grow.
I said this before, as a tree ages it grows stronger, wiser, and bigger.
However, along its life it loses many branches and leaves. Without losing those branches and leaves new ones cannot blossom, thus stunting said tree’s growth.
I’m sorry, but it’s now bigger than me, it’s bigger than you. It’s about being the person I want my child to admire.
It’s about my kid being proud to say, “That’s my father.”
It’s about my wife being proud to say, “That’s my husband.”
So, If I expect that for myself. I expect the same from you.
What Do I Mean?
You have to be the person that my child looks up to and is proud to say, “That’s my father’s friend.”
You have to be the person that my wife looks at and is proud to say, “That’s my husband’s friend.”
It’s a simple test, and if you can’t pass it, well, our relationship won’t last.
I only ask for growth, positivity, and progress.
If you can’t respect that your whole perspective is wack.