Don’t Die The Wrong Way!

Dying is inevitable. As morbid as it may sound, this holds true for everyone. No exceptions. Everybody knows this fact and yet only a handful of individuals actually plan for their death. Death is not a popular topic in any household. It is not your typical mealtime conversation.


And yet, experiences show that unprepared deaths leave tremendous amounts of burdens to those left behind. These burdens are not limited to emotional burdens but also include burdensome tasks like loads of paper works, bills to pay, intestate settlements to name a few. Presently, not planning for death is IMPRACTICAL. Though, we cannot choose how we are going to die, we can however plan how everything will work out after we go.


 Get insurance


The first thing to consider when you are preparing for the inevitable is to get life insurance. It assures you that your family will not be left with nothing. It assures your loved-ones who are left behind that they are taken care of financially especially while they are adjusting to their loss.


Prepare a will


To be sure that all your requests will be realized after you go, write a will. If you die intestate or die without a will, your control over your properties die with you. The state under the rule of law automatically controls “who gets what”. Your spouse does not automatically get everything you own.


In some cases, the court even has the right to decide who will be the guardian of your children. And furthermore, dying without a will is more costly and complicated. So prepare a will to ensure yourself that all your wishes will be carried out after your death. Remember also, to UPDATE your will every now and then.


Make the necessary arrangements and preferences yourself


Arrangements include funeral and wake. You can choose the rites and ceremonies you want. You can also decide if you want a burial or if you prefer cremation. You can avoid rites that are against your religious beliefs. You also get to budget everything.


Provide end-of-life documents


These documents are important especially, during those unfavorable events when a person becomes incapacitated. A living will is a document where you state how you want to prolong your life and contains the medical procedures that you prefer. A durable power-of-attorney is also beneficial. It gives another person the power to act and decide on your behalf. It is a document that remains active even when you become incapacitated.




In a living trust you maintain control over all your properties under the trust as long as you are alive and ownership will automatically transfer to your beneficiaries after you pass away. This does not require the participation of the court unlike in probate therefore is less costly and more private.


Divide early


The possessions you have are not limited to real property (real estate). They may include small valuable things like your favorite china or an heirloom watch. To avoid any disagreements on who gets what, you may want to decide early and inform your heirs about it. You can distribute them beforehand if you feel that it is better that way. You can make a signed list and mention it in your will.


Death is not an easy topic to discuss and planning for it is not a simple task. In fact, it is one of the most traumatic events of life. But looking more closely, the people you care for will benefit more from a planned death. They will be spared of numerous stressful tasks during their moment of grief. So why go unprepared when you can go burden-free?


Do you currently have a will?  When was the last time you updated your will?  Do you have a durable power of attorney?  IF not, why not?





  • It's amazing how many of us fail to do this properly. Me included! I'm going to immediately work on updating my documents after reading this. Thanks. Great post.

  • What is a suitable age to think about this kind of stuff? I'm only 31 and I don't have kids or anything. So I assume this can all wait. At what age should a single guy be writing a will and getting life insurance?

  • That's a lot of work. I'm way behind on all of that stuff and really need to get on the ball.

  • YFS /

    When you become independent is the appropriate age to have these documents. You should get the documents in order now and update date them as life changes occur

  • YFS /

    Joe, it's not that much work you can get all this done in a relative short amount of time. You don't want to leave your wife and kid's lively hood to be up to the state now do you?

  • YFS /

    Great! I'm glad you're taking the initiative to get the proper docs in place. Do you currently have any of the documents?

  • I had all these taken care of when my first son was born over 16 years ago. We had a new arrival though 20 months ago and I haven't updated (grrr). Thanks for the reminder that I need to get in gear and get these updated.

  • YFS /

    Either you're Benjamin Button or Your Gravatar is not your photo. You look no older than 25 in that picture. Looks like some one found the fountain of youth and isn't telling us! No problem on the reminder to update your documents.

  • Yep that's me, good genetics I suppose.

  • I've tried a couple of times to put together a living trust, but each time it requires me to get so much information together than I always get stopped up because I need to go find some other piece of information. Motivation to consolidate accounts and whatnot I guess…

  • YFS /

    You can create the trust and take your time funding it / changing ownership. You don't have to do it all in one weekend. Start with what you know and then over time roll all your assets that want into the trust as you identify them. A partially funded trust is better than no trust at all.

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    Dying is inevitable. As morbid as it may sound, this holds true for everyone. No exceptions. Everybody knows this fact and yet only a handful of individuals actually plan for their death. Death is not a popular topic in any household. It is not your ty…

  • I don't have a will, mostly because I don't have any children or dependents. But I guess it would be good to at least put something together.

  • YFS /

    Even if you don't have children you should have a Will. If you die without a will the state will distribute your asset as they please. I'm sure you would rather have control over who gets your stuff right?

  • True. I could draft one myself right? Or do I need to get a lawyer?

  • YFS /

    You can draft your own will but I would not advise you do that. There are several clauses which you want to have in you will that you may miss. I suggest you contact a lawyer or use a online service like legacy writer.

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